The After-School Pause: 5 Ways to Regulate Emotions with Stillness
- Growing Up Nordic
- Sep 7, 2025
- 3 min read
Updated: Jan 22
In the hustle and bustle of daily life, especially after a long day at school, emotions can run high. Children and teenagers often find themselves overwhelmed by the day's events, leading to stress, anxiety, or frustration. The After-School Pause is a concept that encourages taking a moment of stillness to help regulate these emotions. By incorporating intentional practices into this pause, we can foster a sense of calm and balance. Here are five effective ways to embrace stillness and regulate emotions after school.
Creating Intentional Calm
1. Create a Calm Space
The first step in establishing an After-School Pause is to create a designated calm space. This area should be free from distractions and filled with elements that promote relaxation. Consider adding soft cushions, calming colors, and perhaps some nature-inspired decor. Encourage children to personalize this space with items that bring them joy, such as books, art supplies, or even a small plant. The goal is to make this area a sanctuary where they can retreat to unwind and reflect on their day.
2. Practice Mindful Breathing
Once in their calm space, practicing mindful breathing can significantly help in regulating emotions. This technique involves focusing on the breath, inhaling deeply through the nose, and exhaling slowly through the mouth. Encourage children to close their eyes and count their breaths, aiming for a steady rhythm. This practice not only calms the mind but also helps in grounding them in the present moment, making it easier to process their feelings.
3. Engage in Gentle Movement
Incorporating gentle movement into the After-School Pause can also be beneficial. Activities such as yoga, stretching, or even a short walk can help release pent-up energy and tension. Encourage children to listen to their bodies and choose movements that feel good to them. This physical activity can serve as a natural way to transition from the busyness of the school day to a more relaxed state of mind.
4. Journaling for Reflection
Journaling is a powerful tool for emotional regulation. After a busy day, writing down thoughts and feelings can provide clarity and insight. Encourage children to express themselves freely in their journals, whether through writing, drawing, or doodling. This practice not only helps in processing emotions but also fosters creativity and self-expression. Over time, journaling can become a cherished ritual that enhances emotional awareness and resilience.
5. Embrace Nature
Finally, spending time in nature can be incredibly restorative. If possible, encourage children to step outside during their After-School Pause. Whether it’s a walk in the park, sitting under a tree, or simply observing the sky, nature has a unique way of calming the mind and soothing the spirit. The sights, sounds, and smells of the natural world can help children reconnect with themselves and find peace amidst the chaos of daily life.
Conclusion & Resources
The After-School Pause is an essential practice for emotional regulation, providing children with the tools they need to navigate their feelings effectively. As we explore these practices, we also discover the philosophy that guides our calm rhythms.
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